There is no goal, only the present moment of exquisite union.For this reason, lovemaking is meditative, expressive and intimate.One of the most well known advocates of Tantra is the musician, Sting, who credits his fulfilling sex life to this ancient art.With ingredients such as love, trust and mutual respect, the magic of Tantra is available to couples of all ages and levels of sexual experience.If your sexual get-up-and-go is gone, maybe you're not getting enough sleep. Do you have a sleep problem like trouble falling or staying asleep, or a condition such as sleep apnea? The North American Menopause Society: "Fixes for a Stalled Sex Life." NYU Langone Medical Center: "Female Sexual Dysfunction," "Psychosexual Dysfunction." Phillips, R. Campbell-Walsh Urology, 10 THIS TOOL DOES NOT PROVIDE MEDICAL ADVICE.Anything that messes with a good night's rest can mess with sex. Work on your sleep habits, and if that doesn't help, talk to your doctor. It is intended for general informational purposes only and does not address individual circumstances.
Ejaculatory control is what makes it possible for Tantric lovers to capture and extend the magical energy of orgasm.The result of all this misunderstanding is that nowadays, younger women write to 'agony aunts' saying things like: 'I'm sure there must be something wrong with me because I don't come at the same moment as my boyfriend.And he is quite upset about this …'But the truth is that, while simultaneous orgasms are nice, they are difficult to achieve, especially when you're young.The notion that simultaneous orgasm is the norm is simply a myth that's been created over the last couple of hundred years, by hundreds of romantic novels and erotic stories.Even today, a lot of people believe that couples do generally 'come together'.