There are things floating around that have little or nothing to do with the Bible.
Most are well intended and contain a nugget of truth. Dating is hard enough without sifting through all this erroneous information, so let's debunk some myths.
You are destined to be with her, and God will guide you to her." Good luck finding this one in the Bible.
There is plenty of stuff about God's will for his people, God wanting good things for you, and God's ultimate plan.
It's still not unusual for the guy to pay most of the time, but many guys are expecting their counterpart to at least offer to pay here and there.
Unless he expressly has told you otherwise, he probably would love to see you split meals and expenses once in a while. If your man is supposed to be your best friend, is it fair to make your best friend pay for you every single time?
Yes, most of you want a girl with “that” perfect body type – slim, but not skinny; soft, but not fat.
With curves in the right places and zero anywhere else.
So, what are the real items on most guys' secret agendas? Besides the obvious sleeping-with-you milestone (which, honestly, is no secret), guys have many non-physical expectations that you might not have considered. Guy Expectation: He Wants You to Pay Sometimes It's all about the gesture.
There are plenty of them, but let's focus on what I believe are the top five myths that make dating harder for Christian men.
Myth #1: "God has one woman picked out for you to marry.
Don’t pace nervously around the room, sighing for the tenth time, looking at your watch and moaning: “Are you ready, yet? Most of us were not born so naturally good-looking as you are.
So sit down and wait if you’d like us to look gorgeous as hell.